The unmade bed has serious archival preservation problems. And in the same cave there are some lousy poorly executed animals done by students or less skilled artists that are venerated more for age than accuracy or beauty or anything else. I know that back then other human beings struggled to make the marks right and express what they meant. That’s instinct, that’s down as deep as biologically being my species. Find a man who says that cliche. Then ask him over for a bacon and egg pie.
However I do think you have the right to correct any negative remarks or facts your mother may have told her about you. I am sure you would not have accomplished the things you did if you had your mom phil tattoo trash talking you in your adult life. Thus far the most therapeutic thing has been going through pictures of us when I was a toddler. Somehow I plan to ask my own daughter why she hates me. What my mother did to poison her.
When I first found out he has passed I was completely relieved!! Finally my mum would be free of him. However since his death my anger towards him has fadded away and now I’m definitely grieving… For the relationship I wish we had mostly I think. It’s very confusing to feel this way about him. My memories of him are good and bad. I remember him being the protective big brother who would never let anyone do anything harmful to me.
When my brother died, I felt that a piece of me was died, too. I had no problems with people saying “I’m sorry,” because they truly were; and some of the statements you suggested would have made me cringe inside. That being said, I believe this post was important as it gave different options for those who don’t know what to say.
People in Japan and China, d o not act like you. They have no architectural, artistic, or cultural influence which is in ANY way, asian. Thinking of the great countries in Asia such as Japan, Korea, and China there is no way you can possibly connect the Philippine Islands. This assault by filipino americans to connect themselves with the great peoples of North East Asia is foul and disgusting. Try visiting a young filipino’s web site too. Check out his website listed at the end to get a glimpse at this fool who’s spreading this hateful ignorance.
My mum takes her grief out on me. I was only 15 months younger than Cameron, and we were ill together. One night I heard her say “why Cameron and not Caitlyn?! I lost my husband nearly two years ago and it’s been something that I am dealing with. He was diagnosed with bipolar disorder and his death was via suicide.
I renewed our wedding vows with him on his last night. My parents drove down again, but it was much the same. My father had the nerve to tell my sister “don’t bother coming down because she isn’t having a funeral”.
A song made me think of him, and I got annoyed, and wanted to find an annoying tweet or facebook post of his to read and feel better about myself. Instead I came across his obituary. I have set up a Facebook group for people in a similar situation if you’d like to speak to like-minded people without judgement? It’s a space to say what you need to and help untangle your complex feelings. Sexual and emotional abuse, addiction, codependency, all were part of our relationship. As were two amazing kids, some good memories, attempts at rehabilitation, battles with mental health issues, and so much more.
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